When Clay Felker — founding editor of New York magazine, who also had stints at Esquire and The Village Voice — was diagnosed with his second cancer, doctors said there wasn’t any treatment that would extend his life.
So they suggested that Felker and wife Gail Sheehy seize life: Do something wonderful that you wouldn’t have dared do before.
Now that’s a charge worth pursuing.
Sheehy told me it took them about a year to figure out what to do. They enjoyed a great trip to France — even though he was on a feeding tube. And they found a way for Felker to pursue his passion of developing young talent in magazines, which meant moving from Manhattan to California to work at Berkeley. With lymphoma. (That’s a cancer that begins in immune system cells called lymphocytes.)
“He actually developed a great deal of courage,” Sheehy said.
She traveled back and forth between her job in Manhattan and their new home. The couple experienced a new time of feeling young and in love all over again. And Felker’s lymphoma went away.
“That’s the kind of miracle of it,” said Sheehy.
Felker was able to work for 10 more years.
If you give someone the chance to feel alive and able to do things, they just may be able to do them.
I’m grateful that can happen.
Felker photo: USA Today. Sheehy photo: LA Times